Why No PMO Is Best - How To stop PORN
This article will discuss why no PMO is best and what it stands for. PMO is watching porn, masturbating, or having an orgasm. Why is this bad? Because you feel good for relatively little effort, and you condition yourself to repeat this behavior over and over again. Why should you have some effort to feel good? Because that’s what success is. Because that’s what builds self-esteem. Because if you fall for feeling good with little to no effort, you’d take drugs all time.
The Habit Loop
The habit loop is always the same. First, there is a cue. For example, you are bored in your bed alone. Then there is the routine: You “PMO”. Then there is a reward. The reward never fails to deliver. Because of this, there will be craving the next time the cue arrives. A habit starts to form. The more often you repeat this habit, the stronger the habit gets. It becomes a ritual you can’t resist.
Some consequences of PMO
PMO is a bad ritual because you can’t resist the habit. It will take your time. You will do it whether you want it or not. You just need it. The real downside is that you’re going to create a comfort zone that makes everything else less desirable. Why is that? Because you can feel good without hard work, your brain will unconsciously prefer that way and won’t have any need to go a way where it will feel good a harder way. For example, cleaning your room or checking something else off your to-do list.
What God wants
But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
Matthew 5:28 And if thine eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life with one eye, rather than having two eyes to be cast into hell fire.
Matthew 18:9 So we should at least watch stop watching porn when it comes to the bible. I will leave it at that for now.
How to stop
It can be hard to stop. Very hard. There needs to be one thing said: Every time resisted is a victory! And: A fallback is not the end of the world. Just keep trying. An addiction - and this is what it is - sometimes cannot be beaten overnight. But it is possible. And the craving will be less and less and eventually go fully away. You need to be aware that - like all drugs - it is like a magnet. First, its influence is very strong but the further away you get the less its influence gets. You can get wet dreams at first since your body is used to ejaculating. This is normal and will go away eventually.
What to expect
You will definitely feel better and more motivated. You will feel calmer and less anxious. There are a lot of benefits but they depend on your personality. You will have more time also, depending on how long you PMO each day. I am very sure God will bless you in many ways for improving your life. Did you know that one could get PIED from porn? That’s porn-induced erectile dysfunction. So if your girlfriend doesn’t turn you on. That’s the reason. If you stop, soon she will again.
Conclusion
There are a lot of foolish arguments for not masturbating. But there are some really good arguments for not doing it as well. It’s an addiction that messes with your dopamine levels. It doesn’t make you happy but miserable because it is never enough and you will always need more and harder stuff. In my opinion, one should be happy about things that he accomplishes not rubbing alone on one’s body part.